What if you are missing out on key opportunities to make your life better?
Karen Goslin is the author of Yellow Paint: Learning to Live Again, a story of resilience, transformation, and embracing life’s invitations to grow. Through her writing, she inspires real change—helping others recognize and take action on the moments that shape their lives.
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Who is Karen Goslin?
Psychotherapist
Through her 30-year career as a psychotherapist, Karen boldly challenges others to lead lives with curiosity, courage, and hard work. She believes in mastering tools that improve health, change negative narratives, ground grief, heal betrayal, reduce shame and promote mindfulness. She also believes in going after root causes; to visit the past for discovery and shifting and then effectively bringing those discoveries and shifts into our lives. Karen leads with what needs to be said, from a place of deep love for the human spirit.
Author & Speaker
Karen is excited to release her first book: “Yellow Paint: Learning to Live Again” taking her professional and personal experiences to connect deeply with others outside the therapy room. Her story invites readers to uncover the important meanings in their own lives. To learning critical strategies, and raising accountability, firstly to themselves and then to those they care about. …To finding their own “Yellow Paint.”
Mother
Karen Goslin is a devoted mother. Karen’s own journey through betrayal, loss and illness lifted her up to her own potential and beyond, with compassion, acceptance and empowerment, becoming many things, including being a conscious mother. Through her writing, Karen shares her experiences, inviting others toward clearing their own pathways for deep understanding, freedom and power.
I believe we get invitations to grow
Invitations arise in the midst of life’s most painful experiences—those that shatter what we believe about ourselves, others, love, and life. These repeat, getting more serious and painful, hitting us harder each time. Within that suffering, we either bury, avoid, deny, medicate, rationalize, or give up… or we WAKE UP.
I woke up on my seventh invitation. And when I did, everything changed. I dug deeper than ever before, took accountability for my role in my problems, made peace with those who hurt me, improved my health, shifted my thinking, and built an authentic, powerful life beyond what I ever thought possible.
My wake-up call came unexpectedly—in a little can of yellow paint.
What invitations are you ignoring or missing?
What beliefs are you holding onto that are holding you back?
Are you ready to open your invitation?
Are you ready to paint?
We change when things are going well. We change even more when things aren’t. It gets messy. Sometimes very messy. We usually know what is ‘wrong’. But we also usually don’t know what to do about it. Within our darkest moments lies a deep message worth recognizing, knowing, hearing and doing something about. It takes grit, guts, unconditional love and a clear direction to take that message and rebuild your entire life. It's because of that pain that we find our way out and up, to a life that’s been waiting for us the entire time...The life on the other side of pain.
Karen Goslin MSW
Psychotherapist
Author
Mother
Karen Goslin has a Master of Social Work from the University of Toronto and in 1998, she founded Karen Goslin & Associates.
Karen is passionate about guiding people toward transformation, helping them process depression, anxiety, conflicts, addiction, chronic illness, loss and trauma as invitations to change, and ultimately discover clear purpose and limitless potential.
Her work draws on evidence based therapeutic approaches and creates safe, deep spaces that enable the straight talk necessary for powerful accountability and meaningful healing.
Now, Karen is sharing her insights with a broader audience. She speaks to us with compassion and insight, developed from her personal and professional experiences.
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What readers are saying
Sue Matheson
Chapter of your life, you will not regret it
Thought provoking , I was able to dig deep and look at my life with the help of this author. If you are truely ready to change your life, this is the book for you . I have learned so much in a chapter of my life. I can move forward with success in the life I have and the lessons learned from yellow paint. If you need to understand yourself I highly recommend this book to you!
Bold, Powerful and Inspiring
Yellow Paint is a brave and beautifully written life journey.
Through Karen’s life story and unique therapy, it empowers you to manage triggers in your own life and understand invitations to grow again. Don’t ever give up. You can hit rock bottom and learn to live again.
Laurie M.
Angie E.
Raw, Edgy, Accountable Therapy. There should be more books that give this advice.
Yellow Paint: Learning to Live Again isn’t just a book—it’s an invitation. Karen Goslin doesn’t hold back, offering an unfiltered look at the struggles and breakthroughs that shaped her journey. But what sets this book apart is the tools and strategies behind her unique therapy methods. It’s raw, it’s edgy, and it challenges you to think and be accountable. Karen’s approach to therapy is eclectic, which is exactly what I love about it—there’s no one-size-fits-all solution here, just real, practical guidance for anyone ready to find their own way through.
The Book Viral Review
In Yellow Paint: Learning to Live Again, Karen Goslin invites readers on an unflinchingly honest journey through the darkest corners of her life—and into the healing light of transformation. Drawing from her lived experiences as a woman, a therapist, a mother, and a survivor of chronic illness, trauma, and heartbreak, Goslin writes with a voice that is at once intimate, fierce, and compassionate. This is not just a memoir, nor is it a conventional self-help book—it is a manual for those who find themselves lost and are seeking a way back to themselves.
Goslin begins with what she refers to as her “rock bottom”—a moment of suicidal crisis, catalyzed by loss, illness, and the unraveling of her personal life. Her salvation came, quite unexpectedly, in the form of a simple task: helping her parents paint an apartment a soft, lemony yellow. This act of service and grounding became the symbol of her rebirth. Yellow paint, both literal and metaphorical, comes to represent light, choice, and the reclaiming of self-worth.
One of the book’s most distinctive and emotionally immersive features is the use of music as a thematic companion. Each chapter begins with a QR code linking to a song that sets the emotional tone for what’s to come—ranging from the raw ache of The Rolling Stones’ “Paint It Black” to the fierce determination of Eminem’s “Lose Yourself.” These musical interludes are more than just mood-setters; they provide an added sensory dimension that draws readers deeper into the emotional currents of each chapter. It’s a clever and evocative use of multimedia that enhances reflection and connection, particularly for readers who find healing in music.
What makes Yellow Paint uniquely powerful is its hybrid form. Goslin weaves together narrative memoir with structured therapeutic frameworks, introducing her proprietary KG Method—a holistic model that integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), grief work, mindfulness, and emotionally focused interventions. As a registered social worker and psychotherapist, she knows firsthand the clinical landscape of mental health, but she never hides behind professional jargon. Her voice remains personal, vulnerable, and disarmingly real throughout.
Readers are encouraged to examine their own “invitations to grow”—life events that initially appear as crises but may in fact offer opportunities for deep, permanent change. “Some never wake up,” Goslin writes. “Some need more to wake up. That’s ok. Their life is still waiting for them to bank on a wake-up toward better things.” This quote, one of many that lingers long after the page is turned, captures the quiet hope that permeates even the darkest chapters of the book.
The book also explores complex topics such as shame, intimacy, illness, parenting, and intergenerational trauma. Goslin’s storytelling—particularly around her Ukrainian heritage and the legacy of her grandparents—adds depth and cultural richness, illustrating how grit, courage, and love can shape resilience across generations.
Yellow Paint is best suited for readers healing from trauma, managing grief, or facing significant life transitions. It will also resonate with therapists, coaches, and mental health professionals seeking an integrative and human approach to therapy. Fans of Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability and Glennon Doyle’s writing on personal growth will find a kindred spirit in Goslin’s candid and empowering voice.
Ultimately, Yellow Paint is more than just a book—it’s a lifeline. Goslin doesn’t promise perfection, nor does she gloss over pain. But she offers readers the most meaningful gift of all: the truth that no matter how broken things feel, healing is possible, and a brighter, more authentic life is waiting on the other side.
It is an unreservedly recommended Golden Quill read.
Kirkus Review
A debut author and psychotherapist blends memoir and self-help in this guidebook to overcoming life’s obstacles.
“I had become a complete bitch to live with,” writes the author in the book’s jarring opening lines, adding, “I couldn’t stand the sound of my own voice anymore.” Goslin details the nadir of her marriage, telling her own story while providing guidance to readers for applying its lessons to their own lives. Hitting rock bottom, she notes, was like drowning in quicksand (“the more you scramble, the deeper you sink”) as the author became increasingly resentful of her husband’s passivity and frustrated by her inability to become her best self.
What Goslin eventually discovered is that obstacles in life, from personal tragedies to deteriorating relationships, are also invitations to grow, and often provide us with the wake-up calls we need to re-evaluate our lives with clarity. As the book’s narrative reveals through a series of anecdotal vignettes (each punctuated with clinical analysis), the author rebuilt a network of strong women friends after her divorce, provided a loving environment for her daughter, completed graduate school, and opened her own private practice. This would not have happened, Goslin suggests, had the trauma of her divorce not prompted her to regroup and grow as a person.
Her book is deeply personal and grounded in scholarly best practices (the advice is accompanied by a multipage reference section). The author’s conversational, empathetic style welcomes readers who may be experiencing their own rock-bottoms. Each chapter begins with a QR code that takes readers to a well-curated online playlist with songs (such as the intense, determined beats of an instrumental version of Eminem’s “Lose Yourself”) matching the tone of each section.
The book’s ample backmatter features charts, diagrams, and a glossary all designed to help readers apply Goslin’s self-empowerment techniques to their own lives. While the specific circumstances of the author’s story may not resonate with every reader, the advice is universally applicable.
An intimate, relatable memoir bolstered by thoughtful strategies for self-empowerment.
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Yellow Paint & The Power of Accountability: Karen Goslin's Path from Rock Bottom to Radical Healing
May 2024


